Thoughts On Transitions

April 20th, 2007

Belated 2nd Blog'niversary Entry

I got caught up in during our Philippine trip that it completely slipped my mind to do my blog anniversary entry. I am late 2 months to the day. Last year I did A Year In Review: highlights, favorites and America 101 - a compilation of impressions of the U.S. as seen through the eyes of a newbie filipina immigrant.

I started the second year recounting how I met my husband through the Memoirs of a Penpal 6 part series (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, Conclusion). Eventually I did another piece about the unhappy endings in cyber-matchmaking with The Dark Side Of Internet Marriages.

It wasn't until I was almost in my 5th month that I went public with my pregnancy, a precaution, having undergone two interrupted pregnancies as told in The Tale Of My 2 Miscarriages 4 part series (1, 2, 3, Conclusion).


Has it really been almost 11 months ago? Were you really this tiny? My precious Evan, barely a week old.

Being gifted with a child is truly a blessing and life-changing that about 90% my blog has been devoted to recording the profound and new experience of motherhood. For me one of the many surprises of being a parent is that the feeling of having your newborn finally in your arms doesn't ebb with time - it is but multiplied a thousandfold. The older the baby gets the more beautiful and fun they are. If it is any more possible our love for them burns even more fiercely.

It is indeed very easy to forget the Pregnancy Woes , excruciating pain of Giving Birth (1, 2, 3, 4, Conclusion), the physical challenges as recalled in My ER Experience and Postpartum Black And Blues a result of how labor, delivery and fatigue in taking care of a baby can take a physical toll on even the healthiest of a mom's body. I'm sure I only have to reread what I have gone through would be enough reality check for me once I start yearning for another baby when Evan is 2 or 3 years, as forewarned by other mommies.

I also talked about my mixed feelings of going back to work in I'm Mrs. Brightside, trying, as always to look into the brighter side of things.

Taking care of a newborn was so much more difficult than I had imagined that many times I felt overwhelmed by the task. It is a demanding, always on a rush, 24/7 job with no sign of letting up for the first few weeks that I've had often wondered if anyone could really be Ready For A Baby?

More than ever, even if I was in a haze, I turned to blogging as a stress reliever and a thought gatherer. There was only so much verbal words one can convey to the people closest to me sufficiently. I have always been better at writing down my deepest thoughts and feelings. And everytime I had an entry done, the weight on my shoulders and my chest always lightened up a little.

Through blogging I also enjoyed comparing and exchanging notes with other new parents about coping with parenthood like outlining my Rookie Mommy Mistakes, enumerating Baby Buys: Hits And Misses. No yaya? I authored the No Nanny Survival Manual. Breastfeeding didn't come naturally for me either as written in I Should've Known and Beginner's Manual For Breastfeeding. I shared how I solved the problem of putting our baby to sleep in Dandansoy and how a passage in a book made me more proactive in helping my son achieve his milestones in To Sit Or Not To Sit.

Lest people are wondering where my husband was in all this, Father Love was my tribute to the rock I held unto, my Tom - aka Evan's dad.

Posted by geri at 12:00 PM | 9 thought balloons

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Comment posted on May 7th, 2007 at 08:48 AM
Congrats Citizen Banot :)

HK, I beg to disagree - when they are not having tantrums anyway haha

KK, I wonder when the mommy pregnancy hormones go away. I can't handle being too senti - di bagay sa image.

Thanks Feng!

Christianne, you're right with mommhood there is always ready material.

Rose, hope my insights will be of help to those mommies just like a lot of my non-book resources helped me.

Lan, murag di na jud tawon Lan :)

KK (guest)

Comment posted on April 27th, 2007 at 04:18 PM
Hi Geri, Thanks for the link-up. I've also
linked you up. Have a great weekend!

Lanie (guest)

Comment posted on April 26th, 2007 at 09:47 PM
Ger, Happy 2nd year anniversary! Evan's Birthday is coming up soon! Pun-an pa ba si Evan? ^_^
Comment posted on April 26th, 2007 at 10:08 AM
Ger, Happy Anniversary! I'm sure a lot of people have benefited from the many informative entries you've posted this past year. Even if I'm not a mom, I passed on some of your insights to friends who are expecting or just had a baby. Just like your first year of blogging, you have shared so much of your life and thoughts with such an articulate and thought provoking way. So, just keep on bloggin'! ;-)

Christianne (guest)

Comment posted on April 25th, 2007 at 08:48 AM
Wow, what a very detailed anniversary post. Makes me wish I had done the same for my blog! But then again before the baby came there wasn't much to write about :D

Happy blog anniversary!

feng (guest)

Comment posted on April 25th, 2007 at 12:44 AM
happy 2nd blogging anniv to you Mommy Geri! Cheers to more interesting posts and entries on life's challenges.

KK (guest)

Comment posted on April 24th, 2007 at 10:17 PM
Happy 2nd Anninversary on your blog Geri.
Motherhood has it's ups and downs. The hormones wrecking havoc to our brains is the worst but through it all, it makes life beautiful. (I didn't write my post partum blues because I didn't want to remember my sleepless nights, hehehe)
Comment posted on April 24th, 2007 at 10:40 AM
1 year is about the time the cuteness starts to fade. :P :-D

banot (guest)

Comment posted on April 23rd, 2007 at 09:11 PM
Congrats geri for the 2nd year!i took lots of information about baby matters. Hopefully, you'll keep writing!
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