Thoughts On Transitions

November 9th, 2009

The $0 Toy

This is one of Evan's favorite toys and it costs nothing. It just needs his daddy's 2 fingers and a highpitched voice, meet Toyman:

Toyman sort of acts like a puppet, he can ask Evan anything about the universe and Evan would give him a lengthier answer than if Dad and Mom ask him the same question. I don't know why but Evan loves Toyman. Tom would be typing in his computer, and Evan would go near his daddys and call out: "Toyman are you there?"

I don't know what other magic Toyman has that keeps my son fascinated because this is my husband's and son's world, I mostly leave them alone. Although Evan also has a favorite $0 toy that mommy made too. A pirate sword for daddy and Evan made out of, what else, a cardboard box. On the night I gave it to Evan, my 3 year old even took it to bed with him.

Who says you need toys with bells and whistles to make small kids happy and entertained? I didn't even spend a dime for both.

The "What Begins" Game

A weekly homework for Evan is bringing objects that begins with the "Letter Of The Week". Last night I started playing the "What Begins With the Letter..." with him for the first time. And we were delighted when we would pick a random word and he mostly would name the letter correctly, like T for Tom, G for Geri H for Hannah etc.

I haven't really been working on Evan's "reading" because I have read that it's not good to force a small kids these stuff and it really hasn't been a priority for me. But lately I could see Evan seem more interested by constantly coming to me and asking, "what does this spell" (what does this say?) while pointing to a word on a book.

Since I don't have a structure for how to teach him to read (I feel lost really), I bit the bullet and plunked $30 on a reading activity/study kit (they didn't have it in the library). We'll see how it goes.

Posted by geri at 03:24 PM | 2 thought balloons

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Arlini (guest)

Comment posted on November 11th, 2009 at 08:06 AM
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Ed (guest)

Comment posted on November 9th, 2009 at 04:09 PM
Be sure to blog about it.

We too haven't been really working on reading with LA and like Evan, she has been recently been spending more time asking what something says. After she knew her letters, I went right into spelling but she didn't seem interested and I think we both got frustrated. Eventually she got interested in spelling words out that she could see, like letters on a sign, and having me say the words. I think allowing the natural progression of things worked well in this case but I've been still wondering about the reading part.

P.S. I've been feeling lost too at what developmental stage they should be at these days.
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